Let’s start with a bit of brutal honesty. Guys don’t typically seek relationship coaching. It’s more likely it wouldn’t happen at all if it was up to the guy—he’ll usually reluctantly agree when his girl sees the value of it and he realizes he can’t easily wiggle out. There’s good news girls. After one session his tune will change.
It’s that perception this will be some kind of therapy or counseling session that has him feeling like he’s being backed into a corner. Gust will diffuse that. No one wants to be psycho analyzed and that’s not going to happen. What really happens is you get a clearer understanding of each other and your relationship flourishes. Even a guy can appreciate that.
All those hardships, disappointments, and challenges that life throws out at you can strengthen you and draw you closer together when you’re prepared to deal with them. So drag him by the hand, find some amusement in his deer in the headlights look in his eyes, and enjoy the better man that he will become in the process.
TOM & LEANDRA